asking date

Asking Someone on a Date

In order to successfully ask someone out on a date you have to build up to it. Do not just ask someone straight away, especially when you are asking a woman on a date.

Women love to know that someone likes them and is watching them and also like to do a serious amount of flirting before you eventually ask them out.

By doing this it makes it more exciting and allows you to assess if you were to ask them out would they actually say yes.

So if you like a woman make sure you give her the eye and smile at her. When she stands up to do something watch her every move and act as if shes the only woman in the room.

This will let her know that you like her and if she gives you similar signals and body language back then she thinks the same about you.

Adopt this tactic for awhile and then try to make general chit chat with her. A good way to do this at first is just to say Hi every time you walk past each other.

After awhile start to try and talk to her by offering her a drink but also ask the rest of the people you are with or work with so that your intentions are not obvious to everyone else.

After awhile you will end up talking to her more and more. When chatting always smile and have fun. For instance, make some jokes and make her laugh. Always be flirtatious and see if she is back.

If she is then it is time to ask her out but there are a few things you need to when you finally ask her:

• Make sure you ask her in the right setting.

  In the middle of the office or on a busy, noisy street is not a good idea. Try to do it in a pleasant atmosphere where she is on her own.

• Make sure you keep things fun and smile when you are asking a woman out.

  If you are smiley and positive it should create a positive response.

• Do not pressurize a woman after you have asked her.

  If she needs time to think about it then give her time and above all do not chase them.

• Make sure you have a reason for asking a woman out.

  Quite a lot of woman will put you on the spot and ask you why you want to date them. Think of a reason before hand and make sure you flatter them with your answer.

• Make sure you have an idea of where you want to take them and if they say yes ask them if they would like to go to such and such a place on........

  If they can not make it or do not like the idea then always have an alternative to offer.

  This will show that you have actually thought about it.

• Make sure you exchange contact details so that you can keep in touch before the date.

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